"We all know that waiting until the end of the night to have sex often means you fall asleep before you get to it," says Ian Kerner, a relationship and sex expert, and author.Try alternative times to have sex—your lunch hour, on a Saturday afternoon when the house is empty or by slipping into his morning shower. You may just remember what having a fun conversation is like again! With the endless stress of daily responsibilities and getting the kids from one place to another, it can be tough to keep those same loving feelings that you felt when you said "I do." A picture of a man kissing a woman on a date in Gdansk; adult; autumn; beautiful; beauty; blurry; casual; caucasian; cheerful; city; copy; couple; dating; day; fall; fashion; female; flirting; fun; gdansk; happiness; happy; healthy; human; kissing; laughing; looking; love; male; nature; outdoors; people; poland; relationship; season; smiling; space; sun; togetherness; valentines; young But while you can't exactly take an impromptu vacation or spend hours in bed like you did as newlyweds, there are some fun (and exciting! Challenge yourself to fall back in love with your husband this month with these 30 tips. ) Sure, knowing everything about each other is comfortable, but it's no recipe for romance, says psychologist Harriet Lerner, author of "Marriage Rules: A Manual for the Married and the Coupled Up." Make a rule that for the first ten minutes of any night out, you will not discuss the "business" of your relationship: no kid talk, no work recap." One of the easiest ways to rekindle your romance is to act like you did way back when you were dating, says Michele Weiner-Davis, author of "Divorce Busting." Try a pet name that you used in the early years of your relationship, or the simply more affectionate "Hon's" and "Babe's" that you may not have uttered in years.
Related: How to find lifetime love: 10 secrets from couples married for decades There is nothing wrong with vegging out with your man after a long day, but if Monday through Thursday evenings always consist of little more than zoning out to the DVR or doing separate activities side-by-side (he reads sports news while you cruise Pinterest), tweak your lazy, chill time to make it more loving. Or his-and-her backrubs while you watch your favorite show?
Or if you can squeeze it into your schedule, after the kids are in bed, put away the tub toys and enjoy a bath together. " or "Hey, did you remember to call the accountant?