In most cases, you will need to establish a bit of a connection between you and the shop assistant, before she will be comfortable giving out her number.
You need to make an assessment of what is appropriate for her and the store she works in and then go from there.
We’ve all been in that situation where we walk into a shopping mall and see a hot woman working in a clothing store or other retail outlet. She likely gets a few guys every day coming in and having a chat with her, so to stand out you either need to make her feel a lot of attraction for you, or you need to go into the store 2-3 times to let her get familiar with you and feel more comfortable giving out her number. Quickly making her feel attracted and creating a connection and then leaving Sometimes, a woman won’t have much to do because the store will be quiet and her boss won’t be around.To be successful at picking up a female shop assistant, what you should focus on doing is: 1. Rather than only sticking to friendly customer to assistant conversation, you need to add in some flirting. However, in most cases, she will be under pressure to serve other customers or impress her boss by continuing to work hard.If she seems busy, take some time to look around the store until she has a couple of minutes to talk to you.If she can only talk to you for 10 seconds before getting back to her work, make sure that you make it count. Use humor to get her laughing and feeling good when interacting with you, so she then remembers you the next time you come in.
If you’re displaying the personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women, then she’s going to be feeling attracted to you.
For some guys, the thought of approaching women in bars and nightclubs makes them feel nervous because they’ve already tried it before and have failed, or because they think that women who go to bars and clubs are not the same as the “innocent looking” women who work in clothing stores or office buildings.