You need to take the initiative on your sim’s behalf and order a more thorough exploration of the world around you. Your sim isn’t going to like everyone they’ll meet.
There are a few ways for your sims to meet other, unrelated sims: Is that sim right for me? Possessed of a different combination of Aspirations and Traits, the many sims of The Sims 4 are bound to act, and react, in vastly different ways from one another. Indeed, some sims will outright one another, because their viewpoints are radically different, and attempting to forge a relationship between two such passionate haters… (Not unless you’re really looking for a challenge.) As such, you should test the waters a bit with prospective romantic candidates before sending your sim in for the kill.
Some sims in The Sims 4 may prefer the single life, but others - indeed, perhaps the majority - want a mate.
Seduction and romantic bonding both play huge roles in the lives of sims, and depending on how you approach the situation, hooking two sims up may require a lot of work.
There are two ways to romantically entangle two sims: Making Connections Even the most social of sims typically will not go wandering out into the world looking for companionship.
Based on their Traits, sims are usually pretty tolerant of most dialogue options from other sims.You have to look far and wide to find a sim that won’t respond favourably to a joke, polite questions about one’s day are generally acceptable, and even minor compliments will usually get you somewhere.