If you're just looking for sex, then carry on, but if not, how can you tell if a guy is really right for the long-term?Lauren Frances is one of my favorite relationship experts, and she happens to focus on these particular struggles in her books and one-on-one coaching.If this happens as soon as you exchange numbers on a dating app, before you've even had a single date, then you'll know he's just buttering you up for sex."He will start creating a romantic fantasy via text that will allow you to feel like you're more romantically connected than he's earned by actually taking you out on dates."This guy's going to go into a full-court press right away.He will start texting you five times a day; he will try to completely occupy and dominate your time very quickly," says Frances.In fact, she's known for helping women weed out the wrong men right on the first date.
In other words, it's his most honest moment, and the time for you to ask questions and take the answers at face value *Curveball #1: The guy who texts you nonstop, way too soon.*It's good if a guy isn't afraid to get in touch, but if he launches into constant contact before you've even been on a date, it's a bad sign.By the time he sees you, you feel like you've already been dating for three weeks.