Reformed presbyterian dating

Tonight's Question Box will be of particular interest to some of you, although I hope it will be instructive to us all.

The question is "What are the ' Christian rules' for dating?

One of us is a longtime member of an Assemblies of God church, and a convinced Pentecostal.

I (just call me “Aimee”) speak in tongues, privately and sometimes in church services.

" Whenever I get a question like that I'm not quite sure how I should respond.

I’m not an “evangelist” for the baptism of the Holy Spirit, and I don’t think speaking in tongues makes a person any more holy or mature than any other Christian. I also think salvation is a free choice, and that somebody can choose to stop being a Christian and, then, lose his salvation.

That’s what my boyfriend says makes me a “five-point Arminian,” although I’d never heard that language before.

This one of us (just call me “Calvin”) agrees with my church’s doctrine.


In case you misunderstand, we’re not arguing about this. We talk a lot about Jesus and a lot about the Bible, but, probably out of love for each other, we don’t bring up speaking in tongues, miraculous healing, or predestination! We know it’s not right to marry an unbeliever (we agree on that part of 1 Corinthians! But is it okay to marry a fellow believer in another denomination?If we do marry, should we continue to go to our separate churches?


  1. Pingback:

  2. eric   •  

    A very proud city that is not only very gay-friendly, but America’s oldest capital city, celebrating 400 years in 2010.

  3. eric   •  

    This week, Marie Hansen, superstar librarian at Jefferson Market, posted a list of resources for people who are either in an abusive relationship or who know someone who is in an abusive relationship.

  4. eric   •  

    Con esta ‘app’ puedes mandar fotos comprometedoras a tu futura pareja o actual ligue, pero que se autodestruyen en determinado número de segundos. 8 de 10; ya entrados en ondas, sin duda el siguiente paso será verse para poder echar pasión en el motel más cercano. Quémate y quema a quien tu quieras, bajándola desde aquí ¿Qué es?

  5. eric   •  

    is probably the safest choice, if only because it has a teens-only section that seems to be moderated reasonably well.

  6. eric   •  

    The News - October 6, 1964 Van Nuys (Calif.) There was a time when the moon was for lovers instead of for unmanned instrumented probes.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

You may use these HTML tags and attributes: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>