Going to events filled with strangers is an awkward thing to do. But if you really want a good relationship, take my advice: Get out of the house—and don't make a bar your first choice.
Take advantage of all the possibilities the online world offers, but use them wisely.
Dating sites are programmed to make us think in terms of numbers, to keep hopping to the next person, the better and sexier match. There will be a constant feeling of uncertainty and that's not what we want when we're dating.