We had no idea The Rules would become a bestseller…
we just wanted to help women stop making mistakes and get the men of their dreams—and that’s what we still do now, 20 years later!
We began to notice that the women who played hard to get, either deliberately or by accident, were the ones who got the guys, while the women who asked guys out or were too available were the ones who got dumped.
We put two and two together, and wrote and wrote, and that’s how The Rules were born!
But get a grip and tell yourself there is no shortcut to courtship, things take time, so you must not act impatiently or desperately.
You are a CUAO (Creature Unlike Any Other), remember?