While I still believe what I wrote there, I’m finding that many of the women who are contacting me are not at the point where they are sure if the man is their “boyfriend” or not.
With that in mind I wanted to review one of the recent emails I’ve received from a reader and offer some additional advice for this problem.
In some cases, this could cause what he saw as a healthy, budding relationship to end abruptly.
You enjoy each others’ company, enjoy the same things and over the next month or so you start to date more seriously. However there is one problem: his dating profile is still active.
You’ve decided to try online dating and found yourself talking to a man that seems promising.You decided to meet and on your first date things go great.First off let me say that many men keep their profiles active even though they are interested in the woman they are regularly dating.Men are slower to commit and many also need their ego “stroked”.
They like having women contacting them…even if they are rejecting all of them as it makes them feel desirable.If you think this is annoying I definitely understand but I would still encourage tact when you try to resolve this issue.