We have gone through marriage counseling for over a year and while that seemed to improve things quite a bit, the problem still remains.... I don't want to live with all of this resentment anymore. She's also extremely fussy of jobs she will do.I should be thankful for my health and the fact that I do have a roof over my head and food to eat, but the fact that my husband is not pulling his weight is killing me! A HUGE list of stuff she doesn't want to do, and very little she wants to do. Making money off Reiki, and similar practices isn't realistic, but that's what she has her sights on. Samsung, Samsung Pay, Galaxy S, Samsung Gear Fit and Galaxy Note, are all trademarks of Samsung Electronics Co. All other brand, product, and service names and logos are marks and/or registered trademarks of their respective owners.My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years and what a roller coaster it has been! Now my daughter will have to live with see her father online and deal with the bullying that will come with that.It's like she is expecting ME to make her business, find her clients, do her phone calls, and so on.If our finances do not change in one month, I just might end this rollercoaster. We both have Masters degrees, and while that is a great accomplishment, we both have massive student debts that the minimums aren't being met on. Now, any sane person would recognize that things need to change in order to bring another life into this world and I completely agree.
I find myself chronically upset and resentful towards him even when things are not that bad.As I write, it is the Christmas season and while everyone is joyful, shopping, enjoying dinners out and spending time with family etc., here I sit hoping that I can make the mortgage payment.I know that I am probably not the only one out there who is going through this but sometimes I just feel so isolated and alone. It's been one big back and forth on our finances, and I am burning out really fast here. It's been a pipe dream for years, and NOTHING is coming to fruition.Any words of encouragement would be greatly appreciated! I work extremely hard, and she doddles a lot when she needs to be seeking work again. I gave her ideas to build her business on, but won't do more with the ideas.
Since our marriage he has been employed a total of 11 months while I have been busting my *** to make ends meet.
I blame him for everything that is wrong in my life and often feel sorry for myself in my current situation.