(Or perhaps they’re too preoccupied being mad at them.) Those reasons might be true for some wives.
I spent most of the first year after my divorce focusing on my kids, my career and doing essential self-care.” Divorced men and divorced fathers are allowed to remove love from sex. They’re judged much more harshly for harnessing their sexuality.“There is a fear that a single mother’s sexuality will jeopardize her child,” Martha Albertson Fineman, law professor and author of “The Neutered Mother, The Sexual Family and Other Twentieth Century Tragedies,” tells Brain, Child magazine.In a Kinsey Institute study of sexual satisfaction in the United States, Germany, Spain, Brazil and Japan, women in committed relationships report feeling more sexually satisfied after 25 years, much more so than in they do in the first 10 years.
It’s not that you’re no longer interested in sex; it’s just that you’re no longer interested in sex with your husband.” Middle-age moms get a bad rap when it comes to sex.
They’ve either lost their sex drive because of hormones, or they’re too consumed with their kids, exhausted from trying to have it all, having body-image issues, or they’re not spending enough “quality” time with their husbands.