If it’s OK with them then it’s OK with me.” In this way trust can be maintained, though few of my clients took me up on this suggestion.Signs of Female Cheating Because women (and men) who cheat cover up their actions with endless mistruths (many told to themselves), it is difficult to know if your wife or girlfriend is being unfaithful.Studies universally suggest that somewhere between 10 and 20 percent of people in committed relationships sexually cheat on their spouse or significant other.Of course, in today’s world of chat rooms, webcams, instant messaging, and instant pornography, the concept of cheating is, in the minds of many who do it, somewhat malleable and easier to deny than in the past, when cheating meant While our cultural stereotypes tend to focus on men stepping out on their wives or girlfriends, the fact of the matter is almost as many women are unfaithful as men. Some women stray sexually when seeking some form of deeper romantic connection or emotional support seemingly missing in a primary relationship.Statistics tell us that she’s more likely to tell her friends than you.
If she is conducting whispered conversations, taking her phone into another room to talk, or hanging up when you enter a room, you may have reason to worry.Thus we respond to the sexually addicted client who insists on continuing to act out with every justified reason, “Feel free to chat online with other women, complain about your marriage to old girlfriends on Facebook, and hook up with women from Craigslist.Just make sure you run the agenda by your spouse first.If you still have a land line, you may experience hang-ups when you answer.
But many others will cheat for the very same reason most men do: they just want more or better or different sex.Defining Infidelity What does it mean exactly for your wife or girlfriend to be unfaithful in today’s digital world? That said, after working with hundreds of betrayed spouses and their ultimately remorseful mates, the answer to the question of what defines infidelity remains as clear to me today as it was when Monica Lewinsky first stored away that stained little blue dress.