I have compiled a list of common lines and lies and am continuing to gather more for your reading and learning pleasure. If you don't satisfy him visually, don't expect to hear from him again. Absolutely there is more to a woman than just physical beauty. So you need not be a supermodel or even very pretty for that matter. Don't forget to let me know about some of the doozies that you may have heard as well! Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder, so you just need to satisfy this one particular man's visual and physical desires first and foremost. Women can actually find themselves gradually becoming more attracted to a man they were not originally attracted to due to various qualities such as intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, etc. Men, on the other hand, will not weigh anything when they're not feeling the attraction to a woman. You know, I didn't find him to be very attractive, but he is just so nice and very funny too. Therefore, you will never hear a man say, "I really wasn't attracted to her at all, but she was just so funny and nice that I want to date her again".
Don't be impressed with yourself just yet Captain Speedy, because you are not the first person to whom he or she has said this. If an empowered, confident person consistently waits to know you before meeting a stranger, then he or she will wait for you too. If you were, you wouldn't feel the need to talk about him to a complete stranger, nor would you have the need to ridicule or criticize your ex. If you have to listen to a stranger ramble on and on about his ex-wife, he probably still loves her, or is bitter and hates her!
We all have friends that fall "in love" in a heartbeat with a person every time they meet someone new. If someone is moving your new relationship forward at the speed of light, this is more than likely what they always do. Someone who has integrity and is morally set in their ways will live by their rules always.