Do NOT ask us about trans issues, what it’s like to live a day in our shoes or what our stance is on the treatment of trans women the world over. If the girl in question is a software engineer, you should probably ask her about that. Buy a few books on us if that’s your thing, educate yourself the information is out there.
Take a gender studies course if you want the skinny on all things trans; we are not teachers.
If you love trans girls because you saw some wild shit in a “trannie porn” you loved, you’ve more than likely got the wrong girl. Treat us with the respect we deserve, and you will have yourself a wonderful person with an amazing story to share yourself with.
Others may have a very liberal background and be excited to share stories about her people with you. Why do you feel entitled to know my LAST last name? Many girls have big dreams and will stop at nothing to achieve them.
Unless, of course, your girl a gender studies teacher, then go right on ahead.
Some girls will not have a supportive family, but will hope to create a loving family one day and want to talk about that.