We have to find a compromise." And compromise is a two-way street. Maybe your partner actually enjoys big parties, as long as you’re not always trying to cajole him out of his quiet corner.
From time to time, I receive despairing emails from extroverts about their relationships with introverts.
One woman turned an empty bedroom into a "man cave" for her introverted husband, who rewarded her by spending all his time there—and sometimes even sleeping there—leaving her alone and lonely.