Equally yoked dating

Do you want to spend your days with someone who doesn’t take any time to bask in God’s presence, who never lifts you up in prayer, never seeks God’s guidance when they are thinking about your relationship?

It always amazes me when politicians, business and religious leaders seem surprised when a mistress or prostitute “betrays” them by telling all to a newspaper for money.

When I share things, I want to know that there is more than her own good intentions to keep those things sacred; there is also the conviction of the Holy Spirit.

And if I am contemplating building a future with her, I want to know it’s a future in which the Holy Spirit will be refining her, growing her, empowering her, and strengthening her so that the two of us could face life’s inevitable challenges with divine assistance.

Do you want to get passionate—or worse, naked—with someone who the Bible says is ruled primarily by their lusts?

Do you want to share secrets with someone who doesn’t have the power to forgive, so if the two of you break up and they get angry, they’ll spill all, using gossip as a weapon to get back at you?

When you sign a mortgage, you can’t know for sure that you’ll be employed steadily for the next thirty years, but if the numbers work out and the house you’re buying will consume just 20% of your annual income, that’s a reasonable risk.

If your mortgage would consume 40 to 50% of your income, that’s a foolish risk.

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If things get passionate, I don’t want to rely on my own will-power; I’m comforted by the fact that God could speak to either of us if my own resolve becomes weak.

One of the most popular quotes from The Sacred Search, a line that has been retweeted many times, is “If I’m going to make myself extremely vulnerable to someone, I want that person to be ruled by the Holy Spirit.” The farther you walk into dating, the more intimate it becomes. They learn things about you—where you live, what you like to do, where you are likely to show up.

That’s good, and that’s potentially bad, because the more someone understands how to love you, the more they understand how to hurt you.

This is part of the sacrifice of relationship; there’s no guarantee, but it’s worth the risk.

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There’s a difference between “wise risk” and “foolish risk” however.If a person is willing to betray a marriage, why would they hold a secret as sacred?

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