” the question I hear most is “What Enneagram personality type is best for me to be with? (I confess that way back in 2003 or maybe earlier, I tried it with a fake name just to suss out how it worked. ” There is even an Enneagram dating site called Ennea which purports to help you discover your type, and then find whom you are most compatible with vis a vis the Enneagram.We can’t match people by personality type, anymore than we can state that certain personality types will be drawn to particular cultures or countries. Another Seven might feel closest to the forests of Canada or the moors of England.
A paradigm shift is beginning to occur when it comes to this statement.
According to Enneagram personality experts, it's not sex-linked differences that cause relationship issues, but rather a lack of understanding about one's partner's personality type.