And then you're back with them for about 10 minutes and you go 'Oh yeah! '" Don't kid yourself about what it was really like or glorify the past.
Don't wait around because you think he's going to change.
Ask yourself: Are you hiding in the relationship so you don't have to face the reality of being on your own?
It may seem more secure, but it's not healthy for you and it certainly won't help you get to a better place. Don't hold all men responsible for the mistake your ex made. Phil tells a man who's having a hard time letting women back into his life: "Trust is not about how much you trust one person or another to do right or wrong.
Why would you want to settle and waste your life away just to avoid getting back in the game? "You've got to say not just 'no,' but 'hell no,'" Dr. Why should he pay for the sins of someone else who may have wronged you? How much you trust another person is a function of how much you trust yourself to be strong enough to deal with their imperfections." Have enough faith in yourself to be able to put yourself on the line with someone, without any guarantee of what will happen next.