it simply continues to be in love with them, but you no longer have access to them.And, like a crying baby who doesn’t have access to his mother that it so yearns for, our minds “rejector stimulus” is on overdrive.She was intelligent, challenging, loving, kind, and fuuucking beautiful. I pictured her smiling face looking up at me at our wedding. The Chemical Process You Experience During A Break Up When you are in love with someone, your brain is hit with massive surges of dopamine (brain scans have shown that our minds follow very similar patterns when influenced by cocaine or nicotine).We dated for just over a year and the mark she left on my heart was undeniable. When you no longer have access to your intimate partner (post-breakup), your brain doesn’t fall out of love with them…In reality, you fought frequently and there were core incompatibilities that drove you apart.
When someone takes up so much of your life, it’s impossible to get over them in a day or two. I could have done it a lot sooner if I knew how to properly address what was really going on in my unconscious mind… Do you still hear certain music that reminds you of them?