He has a wife, he has children, and he has commitments.
Either get the commitment you want and be the starring role instead of the understudy, or get out. Keeping things to yourself will be a big strain emotionally and you need someone who you can confide in, sanity check things with and who will also tell you that you should be doing better. Don’t get pregnant in an attempt to force his hand. A baby is for life…not for using as a tool to get what you want. The better you feel about yourself, the quicker you’ll come to your senses about being the other woman. If he really did love you, he’d put himself in a position to actually be with you properly.
Also if you make him the focus of your existence, it gives him supreme control and makes you very dependent on him. Don’t let him convince you that he is the best you can do for yourself – you are better than playing second best.
Get out and be with a man that isn’t someone else’s.
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If you’re having sex with a married man, or sleeping with a guy that has a girlfriend, sure he has feelings for you during the sex.Yes, he has feelings for you in the heat of the moment, but if he hasn’t left his wife, children, and home, he isn’t going to. I don’t care how many trips he takes you on, or rings that he buys you. So many women fall for the fairytale idea that somehow he’s going to leave his family behind, and ride off into the sunset with you.