Comment: So recently I started talking to this guy I had met thru social media. If they aren’t offering to help cover expenses by the third or fourth date, kick that leech to the curb.Comment: I have been dating a girl for the last month and it’s gotten physical a few times now, but it’s somewhat unsatisfying.I’m a decent sized fellow, if you get my drift, but she still seems rather…loose.I’d like to keep seeing her but sex is an important part of the relationship.It needs to be good for me to stay and right now it’s definitely below average. This question reminds me of the comments we got on a post about oral sex.To a guy like that, the vagina is dirty and smelly and gross or they feel inadequate in some way and are just looking for an excuse not to perform oral sex because they fear they won’t be able to satisfy their partner. The problem isn’t her perceived “looseness.” Well, that’s not true. But it’s the figurative “looseness.” Get my drift, wink wink nudge nudge? If we only ever went down on someone if they were neatly groomed and “clean” we’d almost never go down on someone. Mature folks are well aware of everything that occurs in that region and understands all the possibilities of what could pop up in terms of what we smell and taste. We do it any way because either we love it or we know our partner loves it or both. If you’re into it and you care about your partner, an initial slight stench or change in taste doesn’t deter you. Same goes for the idea that a woman isn’t “tight” enough. Otter fears his partner has “been around” since her vagina doesn’t possess some sort of Kung Fu Grip. The problem is your insecurity and fear that she’s had more experience than you and that you might not be able to satisfy her. Just by submitting this question you’re revealing your own inexperience. You’d know that if you dated anybody for longer than a month or two. Well, I hate to be the bearer of bad news but there’s a real chance that the mother of your children might experience some changes “down there.” Oh, you thought her vagina would stay exactly the same or think that it’s okay if what causes her vagina to be less tight? We have to make sure we can accommodate all of their girth..because that’s a given, right?
Some guys were insisting that that they looooved going down on women…as long as she had recently showered and shaved and was all “clean.” Those guys truly believe that they are all down with going down, but they’re not.Saying that a woman has to be recently showered and “fresh” in order to orally pleasure her reveals way more about a guy than he realizes. How about you just be grateful for the fact that you managed to find someone willing to sleep with you and quit yer’ bitching? Article Roundup Awkward Bad Dates Book Break Ups Casual Dating Casual sex Cheating Commitment Date Like a Man Dating Dating & Finances Dating 2.0 Dating After Divorce Dating In a Big City Dating is Fun Dating Lies Dating Myths Dating Over 35 Dating Over 40 Dating Realities Dating Skills Dating The Crazy Douchey Guys First Date Etiquette First Date Sex First Impressions Happy & Healthy Hook Up Culture Latests Posts Meeting Men Meeting Women Men & Communication Moxie 101 NEW!