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And if you concluded that, because of those observations, you weren’t inclined to try online dating again, you’d have plenty of evidence to support yourself. So let’s keep on going with your other misconceptions about online dating: You dated online for 3 months and didn’t find love? You’ve been in love 3 times in 40 years – why would you think you should it in 90 days on JDate? It’s not because you have no integrity or are a congenital liar. It means you have a deep-seated bias against online dating, so that anything I say which contradicts you is just going to irk you more. Anything to get you outside your comfort zone, to get you to see the world through a different, more empowering lens. Here’s why: In the past three years, 17% of all married couples met through online dating. About 100% How many people have friends and family? Consider: have YOU ever disappeared in the middle of emailing a man because you found other men you liked better? You think that men misrepresent their height or age? You don’t want to pay so much for a service that yields no results? But, in writing off online dating you’d be making a massive mistake. You’ve noticed that men tend to disappear in the middle of emailing? It’s because men and women both discriminate based on looks and age, and you merely want to be given an opportunity to meet.
But all the dating advice in the world is useless if you’re not actually dating regularly!
If you’ve resisted online dating because of your preconceived notions about how it is, I assure you, it’s because you’ve never tried it my way.