I think it's harder for most BBW women to go to the bars and pick a guy up because they don't know if the guy is interested or not. If that's the body type they're interested in, online dating makes that a lot easier.
I'm 32 now and I normally only date fairly fit guys. I didn't decide to date fit guys; that's just who I'm attracted to.One time, I was at a dance with a date and I went to go to the bathroom and when I came back there was a girl in my chair.She just assumed that he wasn't with me or something. I don't think men judge women for their looks any more than women judge men. I think most women have to get over their own insecurities and realize that there are plenty of men who find them attractive, and if a couple don't, that's fine.They don't realize how much fun they are or how attractive they really are.
I was definitely never insecure, but I was involved with church and stuff back then, so I didn't really date. I think I finally figured it out — that guys were also attracted to bigger girls — when I was 23, 24. that there was a BBW chat room, so I got on that and started talking to people. They have parties — they're just like a big dance with a buffet and a DJ. " With online dating, they're not going to message you unless [they're] interested.
There are groups on Facebook for dating and things like that. I don't have that problem, because if you're not interested, whatever, that's your problem. When a guy sends a big girl at the bar a drink, she might think, "Oh, is he making fun of me?