We never had an over-protective sibling to shelter us and tell us that our crush was "bad news" or that person was shady, so we learned to protect ourselves.We’re careful about who we get close to and we’ll never sit silently in front of someone feeling disrespected or violated.Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Dating An Only Child.Not Easy (4341 Views) It Is Not Easy To Be A Virgin / Is It Okay For An Only Child Not To Get Married? 40Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.We’ll call someone out who disrespects us and set a boundary in place and move forward right then and there. Think about it: we never got thrown with a sibling because of nightmares, and if we ever traveled, we got the cozy hotel bed all to ourselves. Do you know how many years we got dragged to boring parties and errands with our parents?We never had anyone to practice our presentations and confrontations with okay! Fortunately (and unfortunately) this was before the time of the Smart Phone so we had to use our imaginations (ah the days) to make the time go by.Another thing i noticed bout most of dem (especially guys) is dat dey dnt take NO 4 an answer. As most of the women I have dated and the woman I finally got married to have all found me to be somewhat very complicated!!!
We are the masters of self-entertainment so never worry about what we're going to do anywhere you'll take us.
No matter how much we love you, we have times that we feel like we might have expressed too much and need to take it back. We never had siblings to completely be raw with, where we could ugly cry and stain their clothes with our tears and never even think twice about it.
That can also spill onto physical comforting, we might be bad at it and give you the awkward hand rub or pat on the shoulder, but that never means that we don't care.
We care a lot, we just don't know how to show it sometimes. Remember, we literally never had to share anything or shack up with anyone other than our parents so we'll need time to get use to you all up in our space.
/ Girl Child Not Bride,my Own Single Advise 4girls (1) (2) (3) (4) Dating an only child, suddenly the parents came up with an idea that they would want him/her to get married sooner. I'm an only child to my mother and only son to my dad. / What Is Your Relationship Status As We Countdown To Valentine's Day / Guys How Do You Feel When A Woman Loves You And You Don't Love Her (Go Up)Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (0) (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2016 Oluwaseun Osewa. And now you are not financially fit to get married and he/she is also financially handicap. i'll be like baby u need 2 be man enough and tell ur parent we are not ready to get married yet we want to have a bomb ass weddin and we need lots of money and rite now we don't got it but if he can't do dat he gon av 2 choose cos i ani't ettin married cos my boyfriendz parent want us 2Dating an only child is not easy atall cos firstly once u guys start thinking bout marriage, jus put it at d bak of ur mind dat u r marrying d parents with him/her (especially d mother). Yes, I guess it is not easy on the girls Ihave dated. As being in that situation you are used to always getting things done your way or never. The only difference in my case, was that I was not pressured by any of my parents to get married.