First, as mentioned previously, I intentionally kept first dates short and only extended the “good” ones.
Second, I would memorize topics that I could talk about.
You know qualities you are hoping to find in someone else and many of your topics should be used to discover if your date has these qualities. I’ll break down the first date conversations into three categories and discuss each.
This refers to parts of your conversation where you are discovering if who you have just met has what you are looking for.This is important to mention because you are looking for particular qualities whether you’ve admitted it or not.This article discusses my general approach for first date conversations with online dating.If you’re instead looking for a list ideas, check out my article on First Date Questions and Conversation Starters.
For all my shyness, I never found it very difficult to have conversations on a first date.
It isn’t that I gained confidence, I just planned ahead.