Within two days I had made it to number #3 in the top 100 women in my age group.None of this was because I’m exceptionally stunning or unique.This is my most popular blog post and it was written for women, go figure.Here are a few examples from current profiles on a popular site: Now be honest, do any of these headlines intrigue you, or make you want to know more about the person? My dating profile led with a quote instead of a position description. It has content (what the quote actually says), it has tone (beautiful, funny, sarcastic, solemn), it reveals something important about you in relation to the author (a Homer Simpson quote says something different to an Anais Nin quote), and it attracts someone who has a similar cultural or literary taste (again Homer Simpson vs Anais Nin).Chose a quote about love because after all that’s what you’re here for. Your dating profile either gets attention from the wrong type of person, or gets totally ignored.Sometimes you doubt anyone is going to love you again. If your profile is sending the wrong message, then that gorgeous, fascinating, almost perfect partner is not going to notice you. It took me exactly two and a half weeks to find the man of my dreams.Most dating sites give you a place to write a heart stopping headline.
My internet dating career was successful because of my profile.What I stumbled upon accidentally, turned out to be my greatest asset.