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No matter how much you like the other person, this is a huge red flag when it comes to alternative dating, as changing yourself for someone else rarely works out for the best.
Remember that your unique alternative lifestyle is what brought you here in the first place, so hold steady to that…
But if you’re just looking for alternative hook ups, it might be better to wait to see if your love is going to be as permanent as your tattoo… Unless you meet someone and you’re absolutely certain that they are the one for you, there is no harm in dating more than one person at a time. Dating frequently and with different types of people is one of the best ways to really zero in on what you’re looking from alternative dating.
So date a goth, a punk or someone tattooed from head to to! Occasionally, you might meet someone who isn’t comfortable with your alternative hookup, or wishes you could be a bit more conservative.
Talk about family, religion, career and goals just to see where you line up together, and where you don’t. You meet someone and you click, and all of a sudden it seems like a great idea to get a tattoo of each other’s names, or a matching piercing.
Our advice is to wait to do any body mods until you’ve established that you’re in a committed relationship – then, go for it!