No matter how much you crave to tell him, you have to be patient and give him time to realize how he feels about you, before you say anything to him. – The more I try to get close to him, the more distant and cold he becomes. His silence will break your heart and all you’ll want to do is run away and hide under a rock.LDRs are hard enough for long-term married couples, but impossible for new couples, who know nothing about each other and are not even “officially” in love. We are all controlled by our ego (mostly), but guys are especially tricky. In fact, a recent survey found that guys would rather be unloved and alone than unrespected.
When he is head over heals for you before you have sex it will only deepen and strengthen your relationship, not tear it apart. When you’re in love, noticing the red flags is challenging, even if they’re blood-red. Don’t be surprised that the moment things get serious (no matter how glorious the time you spent together was) he stops texting, calling and makes something up about his demanding job or his aunt’s sudden illness. Having a long distance relationship is not a dating mistake.When a guy says “I’m not ready for a relationship”, or “I have trust issues”, or “it’s not the right time for a relationship” – Please believe him. But: Starting a new relationship when you live hundreds of miles away from each other is doomed to fail and break your heart.Do not blow up his phone with calls and texts, no matter how cute they are. Sleeping with him too soon is still one of the worst dating mistakes women make – Of all time. Even if it was perfect, even if you felt a connection, even if you cuddled until morning and he made you breakfast in bed.Do not look for ways to bump into him “accidentally”. You need your guy to be attached to you emotionally before you are intimate.
Unfortunately, the answer to the last question is yes. You break down the toughest guy’s walls, make him beg for you to be with him forever, make him bend over backwards to please you – Without playing games. You have to understand and accept that guys need a challenge. It’s not your fault that men think and act the way they do and it’s not your fault you followed your heart and said and did things without filtering. , is the most common and sad mistake I hear about every day.